Healthy Relationship Quiz

1. Your boyfriend/girlfriend calls you on the phone:

	A	5 to 10 times a day, to check up on you.
	B	About once a day, just to chat.
	C	Hardly ever.

2. When your boyfriend/girlfriend is upset about something he/she:

	A	Calls you names and pushes you around.
	B	Talks honestly and openly about his/her feelings.
	C	Gives you the silent treatment for a day or two.

3. When you are spending time with your boyfriend/girlfriend he/she makes you feel:

	A	<>Insecure.
	B	Happy and comfortable.
	C	Scared sometimes.

4. When your boyfriend/girlfriend sees you talking to a person of the opposite sex he/she:

	A	Becomes angry and jealous.
	B	Ignores the situation, besides he/she trusts you and knows that you are usually a social butterfly.
	C	>Walks up and put his/her arm around you.

5. Things have been pretty rocky in your relationship lately. You think it might be time to go your separate ways. When you mention the word breakup, your boyfriend/girlfriend: <

	A	Threatens to hurt you if you ever mention breaking up again.
	B	Agrees that things aren't working and accepts the break up.
	C	Threatens to hurt her/himself if you break it off.

6. You and a close friend have plans for the weekend, when you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend about the plans he/she:

	A	Forbids you to go, you know you're not supposed to go anywhere without her/him.
	B	Tells you to have a good time, he/she will see you at school on Monday and looks forward to hearing about your weekend.
	C	Is jealous that you're going to spend time with someone else.

7. Your boy/girlfriend frequently calls you names and puts you down, you:

	A	Try to ignore it, even though it hurts.
	B	Decide that you deserve to be treated with respect and end the relationship.
	C	Do nothing and hope the person will change.